For Crying Out Loud

A song about leading with kindness and having faith in people in a world that seems to want to beat that out of you. 

She took the sun

She took the moon,

She palmed some stars as she waved goodbye

Then she left the room

I sat right down,

She couldn’t go far

That’s when the weight of a world with no light fell

And broke my heart

     That’s the price you pay when you live with your head in the clouds 

     That’s the price you pay when you live with your head in the clouds

     They’re gonna take what they take when they take it

     For crying out loud.

She took my heart

She stole my soul

She laughed out loud as she ran away, her shit never grows old

I sat right down,

She couldn’t go far

That’s when the weight of a world with no love fell

And broke my heart

     That’s the price you pay when you live with your head in the clouds 

     That’s the price you pay when you live with your head in the clouds

     They’re gonna take what they take when they take it

     For crying out loud.

You can take all my love, you can steal all the light

You can hide all the stars from the sky

But my heart is on my sleeve

And my love is too big to hide.

Took back the sun

The Moon did rise

I saw the stars all re align

When I looked in your eyes

     Chorus

They’re gonna take what they take when they take it

You got make all the love when you can make it

They’re gonna take what they take when they take it

For crying out loud.

 

Mercy Sakes Alive

Love, apathy and narcissism… maybe? What do you think it means? Let me know. 

You there

got a bucket load of don’t care

you can’t go anywhere

without you thinking bout me.

Chased down

followed me all around the town

I’m all but tore down

When you’re not thinking bout me

 

Chorus

don’t want to shout about it

don’t want to wail and moan

don’t want to read about it 24 7

you be my queen B

I’ll buzz around your hive

You’re such a sweet taste 

mercy sakes alive 

You know

all the fuss is just a big show

for all the stuff that we don’t know

I want you thinking bout me

child please 

please stop it with this third degree

your love is gonna set me free

need you here with me

     Chorus

      You always get it when you want it

     Just won’t leave well enough alone

     I still can’t put my finger on it.

     But something’s surely going on

You there

got a bucket load of don’t care

you can’t go anywhere

without you thinking bout me.

Chased down

followed me all around the town

I’m all but Tore down

When you’re not thinking bout me

Chorus

 

If You Only Knew

You ever find yourself talking to yourself on a long drive going through scenario after scenario and wishing people had a better idea of what you are going through? Only me? Forget I said anything then. 

Sometimes I find 

a reason to believe

Most times reminded 

why I had to leave

Still I wander down this road 

you put me on

If you only knew me

If you only knew

 

Sometimes inspired 

to go outside myself

Most times too tired

To think about somebody else

And yet I wonder

About this road you put me on

If you only knew me

If you only knew

 

You look to me to lead the way

I search for clever things to say

I find it hard to choose the words

My head my heart the lines get blurred

I don’t know why

I don’t know why

You don’t know

 

Sometimes inspired 

to make a brand new day

Most times required

To keep the hounds at bay

Still I wander

On this road you led me down.

If you only knew me 

Sometimes I find

A reason to believe

 

Mess Around

Tale as old as time. He loves her. She loves him, and him, and him.  Love isn't always kind. 

You said you needed to be needed

Said you’d never let me down

Tea is you’ve been seen your so mean

The word is all over the town

 

You fooled me big time a heart crime

Treated me just like a clown

You said you needed to be needed

I never thought you’d mess around

 

I told you I loved you I showed you I loved you 

I did what you asked Just like you demanded

Now here I am stranded

I walked through the fire I’m no love denier

I did what you asked I fashioned you a crown

But you mess around

 

You said it’s fire desire

I never thought you’d sneak around

You said you needed  to be needed

I never guessed you’d mess around

 

You mess around

You mess around

 

I told you I loved you I showed you I loved you 

I did what you asked Just like you demanded

Now here I am stranded

I walked through the fire I’m no love denier

I did what you asked I fashioned you a crown

But you mess around

You mess around!

 

Not Afraid Of Falling

When I was 17 I came home and told my dad that I finally found a job. I was going to be a roofers assisstant. I also told him I was deathly afriad of heights. I said I was afraid of falling. He said, “Mark, don't be afraid of falling. Worry about the sudden stop at the end.” That was dad logic in the Bezanson house. I took it to be a metaphore to use on many occasions. In this song it doesn't end so well. Sometimes it doesn't. I blame the mermaid for his eventual fall. 

He went out sailed off and moved on

Tried to steer clear of the shore

The horizon was all he could count on

He chased but found nothing more

THe Sun and the mood and the night sky

Were all he had for his guide

The edge of the world was looming

Then a vision appeared by his side

 

She whispered some words into his ear

He nodded, turned his boat around.

He followed her across the wide ocean

Her whispers made the only sound

The sky was replaced by her beauty

The horizon made way for the sea

And as he slipped over the port side

The fall was beckoning

 

He’s not running scared, he’s just not prepared

To open those old wounds once again

He’s not afraid of falling. It’s the sudden stop at the end.

 

No whispers no stars when you’re falling

You can’t see the water around

No sounds can peirce the big empty

Just gets cold as you sink down

The sun and the moon and the night sky

They all turned their heads away

As he slipped into the darkness

The fall stopped and took him away

 

He’d been bruised and battered, his heart torn and shattered

He’d taken his hat from the ring

He’d come to his senses, built up his defences,

To guard against just such a thing 

 

He’s not running scared, he’s just not prepared

To open those old wounds once again

He’s not afraid of falling, It’s the sudden stop at the end

 

RUIN

A simple case of unrequited love. Not that anything about love is simple. 

Well it is real good to see you were the first words from her mouth

It was plain to see, the words didn’t ring true.

There’s a small light that goes out  when you hopes start heading south.

I think she felt that, but didn’t know what to do.

It was one time, one night, a long time ago

She lit a spark that quickly turned to flame

But the good byes, small lies and the I guess I got to go

Should have been the hint she didn’t feel the same

She didn’t feel the same

     She’ll be my ruin  She’ll be the death of me

     She’ll be my dog days of summer She’ll be the edge of my sea

     She’ll be my ruin She will be my end

     Now that I had a taste of her love I can’t go back again

     I can’t go back again

She does all the talking, doesn’t touch her wine

She says how such good friends we’ll make

But her eyes are down, towards the ground she can’t look into mine

It’s a kind way to say I’m a mistake

So I purse my lips, say goodbye, gather myself and go 

The bell chimes as I close the door

I feel like a fool like I always do it’s a lesson never learned

Unlucky in love but I still want to believe

Still want to believe

     She’ll be my ruin 

     She’ll be the death of me

     She’ll be my dog days of summer

     She’ll be the edge of my sea

     She’ll be my ruin

     She will be my end

    Now that I had a taste of her love I can’t go back again

    I can’t go back again

    She’ll be my ruin ….. I can’t go back again

 

Testify 

For my wife Laura. No idea why she stays with me but as long as she does I'll be writing love songs for her.

I’ve been writing you sonnets

I got the rhymes to prove it

Heaven knows a love like this is rare

Two litttle gold circles

In front of the world we proved it 

A love like ours is way beyond compare

 

I want to testify

I want to testify

I want to shout your name

From every mountain top

I want to testify

 

I’ve been pickin you roses 

I’ve got the scars to prove it

A bottle of wine and some chocolates at your door

You took my hand

under the stars we proved it

I earned your love and I want the world to know

 

When we’re apart I feel you near me

Just Like a work of art I see your beauty

Around me

 

I want to testify (Tell everybody)

I want to testify (I want to tell everyone)

I want to shout your name

From every mountain top

I want to testify

 

REEL WORLD

Social media. Drug of the 2010's and 20's.

I wouldn’t say that

I wouldn’t write that on your wall

But this little bird told me to pass it on

Can’t get into to focus

It just hokus pokus (crystal ball)

My words get a mind all of their own

 

The reel world is driving me crazy

All of my friends 

are bringing me down

This bitter pill is so hard to swallow 

Can’t get the to follow or like me now

 

Too much information

It’s not inspirational (at all)

This little bird told me to pass it on

It’s driving me crazy

The lines getting hazy (can’t see at all)

My words get a mind all of their own

 

The reel world is driving me crazy

All of my friends 

are bringing me down

This pill is so hard to swallow 

Can’t get the to follow or like me now

 

Holding On

Nothing prepares you for that time in life when you have to look after the people who spent their lives looking after you. It's like watching your first superhero get beat up by the bad guy, only he doesn't get up. Tell the people you love that you love them as often as you can. And hug them every chance you can. People say it for a reason. I love you dad. I miss you every single day. 

I can’t say a single thing you don’t already know

I can’t take you anywhere that you want to go

Just one look into your eyes tonight

And I know  you’re holding on

holding on for dear life

Nothing ventured nothing gained living day to day

doesn’t help it when the pain won’t cry away

just one look into my eyes tonight

And you know, I’m holding on 

holding on for dear life

     I can’t find a way to say it The words don’t come that free

     I want us to be together like how it used to be

     And I can’t watch this forever I can't watch my hero fade

     It’s like a mountain slipping away

No time left to show when day turns into night

No words can explain how dark swallows the light

When I look into your eyes tonight

I know that you held on  you held on for dear life.

And I know that you held on

you held on for dear life.

     I can’t find a way to say it The words don’t come that free

     I want us to be together like how it used to be

     And I can’t watch this forever I can't watch my hero fade

     It’s like a mountain slipping away

Holding on. I'm holding on for dear life.

 

Damage

There are times when you see relationships fail and the carnage affects everything and everyone they touch. How can something so good can go so wrong? I don't want to know. But I've seen it enough times to know it's a real thing. A very real, hurtful, terrible thing. I wrote this song about 15 years ago. The guitar parts were recorded on Garage Band. We tried to redo them but couldn't get them right so the originals remain. Big thanks to Andy Bowmer for believing in this song and reminding me it needed to see the light of day. 

It’s fancy meeting you here

Bleeding at this place

No mere gun for hire

You trade it in for lace

I can see by your eyes

The shadow running black

One look into your heart

There’s no turning back

 

Take some more chances

Fight with all you need

Use up my good graces

Lead with it if it bleeds

Use my desires

Make me run the race

Tell me I’m losing 

to the ghosts you won’t erase

 

I’ve gotten used to

The subtle frustration

That magnified all of your reign

Look at the damage 

In all that remains

 

Why are the coldest nights always so clear?

Why do the stars shine so bright,

Whenever we’re lying here?

When will we ever turn back?

When will you let go of all that I lack? 

 

Look at the damage 

Our love has wrought tonight

As if to pay homage 

To the wrongs that made it right

Look at the damage

To all our plans well laid

We tune out the wreckage 

From which our love was made

 

I’ve gotten used to

The subtle frustration

That magnified all of your reign.

Look at the damage 

In all that remains.

 

Why are the coldest nights always so clear?

Why do the stars shine so bright,

Whenever we’re lying here?

When will we ever turn back?

When will you let go of all that I lack? 

 

Just look at the damage.